Dr. Love: To Cheat or Not to Cheat

I am not one for creating newsletters, editorials, or basically unnecessary essays but this nuisance slash huge issue in Love needs to be addressed by yours truly.

WHAT IS CHEATING IN LOVE?

I mean you all know what cheating is. It's just like cheating on a test. Your getting all the answers and solutions from someone else other than your 'own'. Cheating is just something we don't do. It gives both parties to be mad at each other. For guys, it allows them to have a reason to call their female counterpart nothing short of a whore. For girls it allows our weave to get out of whack because we trash our room after we find out our boyfriend's infidelity. Cheating can be seen also as a way for one to get just about every pleasure in the world. Not to say we should not enjoy life and all it has to offer but other learn that lesson very slowly in a sense that they choose to enjoy this opportunity by dipping in just about every sauce the world has to offer. :-)

IS IT A SCAPE GOAT?
It is indeed. It's the easy way out unfortunately. Instead of stepping up to the plate and confronting growing issues in the relationship, people feel as if they can get the "answers" and solution to the disappearance of their happiness from someone who can offer it in that moment. I like to think of it as instead of saving up for a nice 5 star dinner and really savoring luxury, they settle for a quick number one that can satisfy their needs at that moment. Therefore, it's a scape goat because we as humans are too afraid to confront our emotions.

WHAT SHE DOESNT KNOW WON'T KILL HER...
Umm yes it will. I mean if you have ever heard of the saying "all things done in the dark come to light" you will see that even if you are King Cheater IV, your reign will come to an end because she will soon find out. No one...likes to open a can of whoop-ass on a mistake that you made. Women are the bearers of emotion and it is our job to soak up what emotion men can not contain. Since we are so tempermental it's doing us a horrible favor of breaking our hearts. However, this goes for men as well because since they don't know how to process emotion, it is almost unknown as to how they can react which is where a lot of danger lies.

THE RELATIONSHIP IS BORING
I'm not going to say much on this, on account of the fact that my fingers hurts but look:

If you love her...you need to know that you have no reason to cheat no matter how "bof" she is. If you can't see them with anyone else but you, this is your call to arms to bring your relationship back to the day you fell in love with them. And if you REALLY are not happy then you have to break it to them that "honey it ain't working". I know...it sounds simple in writing but you have to emotion conscious in relationships and that is the bottom line.

hope this helps?
email me at mica.j0511@yahoo.com for questions..

I should probably take the log out of my eye before I help anyone with their problems but if it truly put your senses in a clearer light, then by all means keep it coming!

-Mica

NOTE TO SELF: JUST SAY NO

Jealous? I went to FWNY 2010

I think that they should just rename this week long "The Fabulous People Collective", because everyone seen anywhere north of 39th street was just absolutely fabulous. I got a chance to bask in all this fabulous-ness by attending the 2010 Joaquin Trias show. Not to toot my own horn but Toot Toot. This week needs to come more than twice a year.

Sidenote: Time to take out those diet pills.

SMH: Tiger Woods Takes One for the Team

Tiger Woods has got to be kidding me. I would not have said one word if I were him. Who are you apologizing to? You were sorry when you cheated, there's no reason to go on national television and basically showcase your bitchassness. Seriously, that was just a retarded move in general. Do you know how many athletes cheat on their wives with the public knowing and don't go on TV and apologize. I mean granted it was wrong for him to commit acts of adultery anyway however, if he did it he might as well own up to it because all the boo-hoo'ing and pleading is not going to convince me nor the world that you are faithful. If it were me I would honestly go on tv like YEA I DID IT! Actually, I wouldnt (lmao). If he really wanted to make a comeback and show that he is back on his game, he should go for like his thousandth PGA title. I do hope that this whole thing does not mess with his golfing career because he did have an extremely (well-paid) thing going.

Woe is Tiger.

Merry XMas From Me + Papi

I would personally like to wish you and your family a VERY merry christmas. From my heart to yours!

(yes, thats Papi, my little lover.)

Now go get drunk off some egg nog. Oww Oww. See you in 2010

Brittany Murphy Chokes on Vicoden and Dies

I'm a bitch and I'm mean for that. I'm dumb late with this but WTF. Talk about a sudden death. If you don't know who Brittany Murphy is, do me a favor and go relive your childhood. She was honestly in every single one of my favorite movies including Clueless, Little Black Book, etc. When I heard the news it was honestly a total shock being that homegirl hadn't come out with a movie in like a gazillion years. But this just goes to show what Hollywood can do to the actress. It pains me to know that she 'dabbled in Heroin and Cocaine', as stated by her make-up artist. As Bossip.com said "did we not learn our lesson from Michael Jackson?" Totally the truth. This is what we call a WAKE-UP call. Hollywood is not for the weak.

I guess Ashton's right when he said America lost a little piece of sunshine, but what cost did that sunshine come with is the question we must ask ourselves.

Besides that...our condolences go out to her family but we need answers as to how a 32 year old woman with the rest of her life ahead of her dies of natural causes. Fuck that shit.

Merry Christmas Eve...

I know I've been away for a long time. But i just want to take the time out to say Merry Christmas, Feliz Navidad,Yukpa, Nitak Hollo Chito,Buone Feste Natalizie...you get the point. If you're not out maxing out your credit card, cooking for your family, or stuck in a coach class American Airlines flight, check this out. Most Valuable Puppets are back ! AMEN.

2010 is on its way. Bout to bust it out.



BAHAHAHAHAHAHA. The game is over

Alicia Keys + Element of Freedom

I dont care if you are still caught up on 'As I Am'', I sincerely believe that this is one of her best albums to date. Not only is is experimental but I feel as if it invisibly continues to capture the soul of New York, no matter how 'Welcome to Jamrock' the album cover is. I mean...just bumping to this while walking down 116th and Broadway. Yes. Magic.

Element of Freedom/ download

also... enlighten your ears to "Dreaming", something should have made the cut on this album but sadly didnt.


Dreaming/downlaod