Dr. Love: To Cheat or Not to Cheat

I am not one for creating newsletters, editorials, or basically unnecessary essays but this nuisance slash huge issue in Love needs to be addressed by yours truly.

WHAT IS CHEATING IN LOVE?

I mean you all know what cheating is. It's just like cheating on a test. Your getting all the answers and solutions from someone else other than your 'own'. Cheating is just something we don't do. It gives both parties to be mad at each other. For guys, it allows them to have a reason to call their female counterpart nothing short of a whore. For girls it allows our weave to get out of whack because we trash our room after we find out our boyfriend's infidelity. Cheating can be seen also as a way for one to get just about every pleasure in the world. Not to say we should not enjoy life and all it has to offer but other learn that lesson very slowly in a sense that they choose to enjoy this opportunity by dipping in just about every sauce the world has to offer. :-)

IS IT A SCAPE GOAT?
It is indeed. It's the easy way out unfortunately. Instead of stepping up to the plate and confronting growing issues in the relationship, people feel as if they can get the "answers" and solution to the disappearance of their happiness from someone who can offer it in that moment. I like to think of it as instead of saving up for a nice 5 star dinner and really savoring luxury, they settle for a quick number one that can satisfy their needs at that moment. Therefore, it's a scape goat because we as humans are too afraid to confront our emotions.

WHAT SHE DOESNT KNOW WON'T KILL HER...
Umm yes it will. I mean if you have ever heard of the saying "all things done in the dark come to light" you will see that even if you are King Cheater IV, your reign will come to an end because she will soon find out. No one...likes to open a can of whoop-ass on a mistake that you made. Women are the bearers of emotion and it is our job to soak up what emotion men can not contain. Since we are so tempermental it's doing us a horrible favor of breaking our hearts. However, this goes for men as well because since they don't know how to process emotion, it is almost unknown as to how they can react which is where a lot of danger lies.

THE RELATIONSHIP IS BORING
I'm not going to say much on this, on account of the fact that my fingers hurts but look:

If you love her...you need to know that you have no reason to cheat no matter how "bof" she is. If you can't see them with anyone else but you, this is your call to arms to bring your relationship back to the day you fell in love with them. And if you REALLY are not happy then you have to break it to them that "honey it ain't working". I know...it sounds simple in writing but you have to emotion conscious in relationships and that is the bottom line.

hope this helps?
email me at mica.j0511@yahoo.com for questions..

I should probably take the log out of my eye before I help anyone with their problems but if it truly put your senses in a clearer light, then by all means keep it coming!

-Mica

NOTE TO SELF: JUST SAY NO